Saturday, October 20, 2012

I'm doing it, so can u!

Hello frens, i dunno why recently i've got so much to write. Maybe i just park my brain somewhere and forgotten where i left it and now i've found it again.

Have u ever wondered why there are some people whom u can get along so well with? And some who just cant seem to clique? For me (as a shy introvert :x) i would say i open up to people who opens themselves to me. So it

s like a give and take process, where one part gives and the other part receive.

Simple isnt it? Ok let's look at this young couple. They werent tgt initially, but when the guy ask the ger out and she complied, or the other way round, then its like the same old give and take process (let's call this the process for short) and there it all begins. The couple goes out, watch movies, have meals tgt and they starts knocking their hands against each other. And once the guy or the ger initiates and grab the other's hand, that is when 'the process' happens again. The other party will reciprocate and they will lock their hands. (Ok the relationship thingy can go on and on to making babies and i've got young frens so imma skip that and leave it to ur imagination)

Hokay then comes another part, like when u are wih a group of frens, where i wouldnt call them a bad mix but just the cool mix. They start picking up fights and when u see them doing it, its 'the process' again. U start thinking 'oh my frens are doing it so it should be alright to do it'

And its the same for men having affairs. They see so many of their frens doing it, even our lovely Mr DIY lol. And 'the process' goes on again in the brain.

So is it really right to do something? I dunno if there is a term for this phenomenom but i would call this the herd opinion. As human beings, we are afraid of being left out, we get envious, we feel greedy and full of pride. We are gluttons, we lose ourselves to wrath. Gives in to lust and lose the battle to sloth. And its exacerbated by the social media! But then again ask urself why are u being like the others? Its so mainstream (ehich explains my taste of music) Lol but hey, we are still human beings.

Thx for wasting 3mins of ur life ahahaha

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